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Patience ..a trait to acquire

The key to everything is patience..you get the chicken by hatching the egg, not by smashing it open.

Patience is an important ingredient for achieving success in life , then why we soo often people lack this quality? why we as a human being want our wishes , our desires to be fulfilled immediately ? The answer to these common questions is that it is the human nature to want things now, people are not ready to wait. This nature of wanting the wishes or desires to be fulfilled is due to lack of patience .Lack of patience often makes you irritable , increase the frustration level and you will always remain unhappy , as nothing will ever seem to go your way. Slowly and gradually you will turn into a pessimist which will directly affect your family and professional life both. Being patient is the sign that you are ready to face and accept all the setbacks and everyday problems  without getting angry and making yourself and others miserable . Once you acquire this quality of being patient and acting patiently and sincerely , life would become more easy and enjoyable for you. Sometimes due to the responsibilities of both home and work , people become impatient when the results or the conditions are not according to them, but this is the time when you need to  act patiently .. acting in a patient manner would ultimately make the situation look more easy and you and as a result you would have a clear vision about how to act towards that situation or how to solve the particular problem without getting panic.

Most people can look back on incidents in their lives that proved to work out poorly and the reason is lack of patience ..The quality of being patient can be acquired at any age, even if you consider yourself the most impatient person , having patience isn’t difficult to acquire ..it just take a bit of efforts ( and patience ) on your part. Deciding that you are going to be doing something about your attitude towards life is the first step in achieving the goal of your life . Slowing down a bit is a first step for having patience ..as said take some time to smell the roses is very appropriate here. The two major methods to acquire patience in your daily life is meditation and exercise. A good workout or a long walk helps in releasing the built up tension and pressure , by taking time away from all the pressures of your day, you would be able to separate yourself from all the stuff which is making you impatient. Meditation causes endorphins to be released

Having patience is definitely a goal worth aiming for, acquiring this quality will surely take some time but it is not difficult to acquire it. Once acquired , it will change your behavior and you will be surprised to see how quickly you will be satisfied with yourself and you would be able to solve and face the problems without getting stressed.

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4 comments

Anurag Johari July 9, 2018 at 10:23 pm

Well written …… But patience should not be endurance…..

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Nayantika Srivastava
Nayantika Srivastava July 10, 2018 at 8:53 am

Yeah..one should act patiently until and unless situation is in control

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Abhishek July 1, 2018 at 3:27 pm

Nice one. Improvement over the last one

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Nayantika Srivastava
Nayantika Srivastava July 7, 2018 at 12:25 pm

Thank you

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