“Understanding is the first step to acceptance , and only with acceptance there can be recovery and growth”. Accepting the reality..the truth , is although tough but makes oneself realize about their current condition. It is not about that you like the reality or not , it is all about how early you realize it. Ignorance and denial would not be of any help rather it will only keep you away from an effective change,the procedure of acceptance to reality goes on like .. first accept the truth as soon as possible and whether you like it or not you have to be ok with the truth , secondly analyze the reality which would definitely help you in identification and fixation of the loop holes or the mistakes.
Acceptance is alignment with the truth and this alignment helps you make decisions in understanding to right and wrong for your life. As long as you haven’t accepted the reality you are operating on a wrong perception of reality. The people like this are not living in the real world… they are living in their dreams and also keep a desire that each n every event will take place or would operate in a way which they want or they like, and when the things, the people even do not behave or execute in the way they want .. These people are like ..always irritated and also have several false impressions that nothing is left in their lives and nobody is their to support them , they are superior to each and every individual and this feeling of being superior to everybody also gives birth to the feeling of jealousy,low self confidence etc. These things collectively retards the overall growth and development of the person.
If unacceptance leads to so much of mess then why is it so hard to accept ? why people are not ready to accept the truth? I guess the obvious reason is that people often think that by living in denial they can pretend that everything is running smoothly in their lives and this will keep them happy in their lives but the situation gets even worse as the time passes by. The acceptance to truth will set you free from the burden, the stress prevailing in your life. Acceptance to truth means you are ready to make progress in your life.. Yes, it may feel a little uncomfortable, but it is still the only way to go. Acceptance is all about being true to yourself because you can lie to everybody but not to your soul .. not to yourself. People often have several false impressions..like… acceptance to truth will often ruin their lives, they would be of no use etc.. but the situation becomes just reverse after realization or acceptance of truth .. they often get a clarity , a clear vision of what to do and what not to become successful in their lives.