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Acceptance to reality…Is it right?

“Understanding is the first step to acceptance , and only with acceptance there can be recovery and growth”.  Accepting the reality..the truth , is although tough but makes oneself realize about their current condition. It is not about that you like the reality or not , it is all about how early you realize it. Ignorance and denial would not be of any help rather it will only keep you away from an effective change,the procedure of acceptance to reality  goes on like .. first accept the truth as soon as possible and whether you like it or not you have to be ok with the truth , secondly analyze the reality which would definitely help you in identification and  fixation of the loop holes or the mistakes.

Acceptance is  alignment with the truth and this alignment helps you make decisions in understanding to right and wrong for your life. As long as you haven’t accepted the reality you are operating on a wrong perception of reality. The people like this are not living in the real world… they are living in their dreams and also keep a desire  that each n every event will take place or would operate in a way which they want or they like, and when the things, the people even do not behave or execute in the way they want .. These people are like ..always irritated and also have several  false impressions that nothing is left in their lives and nobody is their to support them  , they are superior to each and every individual and this feeling of being superior to everybody also gives birth to the feeling of jealousy,low self confidence etc. These things collectively retards the overall growth and development of the person.

If unacceptance leads to so much of mess then why is it so hard to accept ? why people are not ready to accept the truth? I guess the obvious reason is that people often think that by living in denial they can pretend that everything is running smoothly in their lives and this will keep them happy in their lives but the situation gets even worse as the time passes by. The acceptance to truth will set you free from the burden,  the stress  prevailing in your life. Acceptance to truth means you are ready to make progress in your life.. Yes, it may feel a little uncomfortable, but it is still the only way to go. Acceptance is all about being true to yourself because you can lie to everybody but not to your soul .. not to yourself. People often have several false impressions..like… acceptance to truth will often ruin their lives, they would be of no use etc.. but the situation becomes just reverse after realization or acceptance of truth .. they often get a clarity , a clear vision of what to do and what not to become successful in their lives.

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8 comments

Anurag Johari July 9, 2018 at 10:20 pm

Excellent thought and very well written socio-psyco anslysis….

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Nayantika Srivastava
Nayantika Srivastava July 10, 2018 at 8:50 am

Thank you for the kind words.

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Saurabh Mangar
Saurabh Mangar June 27, 2018 at 12:55 pm

“Acceptance is all about being true to yourself because you can lie to everybody but not to your soul .. not to yourself.”
is the best line in this article 🙂
well written

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Nayantika Srivastava
Nayantika Srivastava June 29, 2018 at 12:38 pm

Oh…that’s Soo kind of you ..well thank you saurabh

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Shreya Dutta
Shreya Dutta June 19, 2018 at 7:46 pm

I agree with you!

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Nayantika Srivastava
Nayantika Srivastava June 19, 2018 at 10:58 pm

Thank youu Shreya

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Jigyasa
Jigyasa June 18, 2018 at 11:49 pm

Rightly said! Acceptance is the first step in self improvement.

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Nayantika Srivastava
Nayantika Srivastava June 19, 2018 at 10:59 pm

Acceptance is the key to self improvement

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